It's either fortunate or unfortunate if you're my Dad. He celebrates his birthday and Father's Day within days of one another, typically in the same weekend most years. Some would say he gets gipped, but the closeness of these two days make me appreciate him all the more - especially this year as he turns the big 6-0! On paper, my Dad looks pretty good, but it's his nature and personality that make him one of a kind.
His life on paper would look something like this:
- Vietnam Veteran
- University of Georgia graduate
- Manufacturing genius
- Mechanic and handyman extraordinaire
- Avid motorcyclist
- Cancer survivor
- Brother, Father, Son, Uncle, Friend
While these things amaze me and make me a proud daughter, it's the glimpses into his personality and day-to-day interactions with him that make him so amazing. One of my favorite Bible verses is Micah 6:8 which reads "He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." I constantly struggle with this verse - I struggle with living it. I see the commands as a tradeoff. I often ask God how can one act justly and love mercy? Although my Dad probably wouldn't call himself a religious person, God has worked in his heart and his actions personify this verse, daily. Dad is such a fair person - with everyone - his children, colleagues and employees but can also be the most merciful. I can't count the times I've been frustrated with someone's unfairness and my Dad always is completely merciful, finding the best in each person and recognizing that everyone has faults and giving people a break when they make mistakes. Dad is also the most humble person I know. He doesn't boast. He's not proud.
Most importantly, Dad makes us laugh. Sometimes, it's through a little joke or wit, but often times he just lets us laugh at his quirkiness. Some of my favorites include 1) his requests and sometimes demands to pack for a trip/vacation at least 1 week in advance 2) his inability to throw anything away and ability to think everything will somehow, someday be useful 3) his need for a political argument - he will play the antagonist even if in actuality, he agrees with you 4) his love for both Swarovski crystals and camping (a slight paradox?). The list could go on.
So, Dad, this one's for you! Thanks for all that you've taught and shown me and the life you've lived so far.
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